Boo Bear and Coco Puff; update 1/2; a weird update; post #41

**Catty1** · 01-04-2010, 07:25 PM

Any point contacting Nancy Efrusy?

**Medusa** · 01-04-2010, 08:27 PM

Originally Posted by cassiesmom

Medusa, how are things with Boo?

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...ng&cid=9907204

No change, I'm afraid. And now that my son has gone back to L.A., he seems worse b/c he and my son are such good buds. I've been talking to Boo, telling him that Pidge is safe and well and not in pain, that she misses him but that she's w/Puddy and that we'll all be together one day. I swear, it irritates him when I do that so I've stopped. He jerks his head away so he's earned the right to be left alone. He's on my lap, though, as I'm typing this.

Originally Posted by Catty1

Any point contacting Nancy Efrusy?

I think I'll pass on that this time. She's a very nice lady but I doubt that she'll tell me anything that I don't already know. My boy is grieving, he's old and not in the best of health himself. I love him so much and I wish Pidge were here to snuggle up to him.

**katladyd** · 01-04-2010, 11:18 PM

I hope he cheers up soon. It must be heartbreaking to see him like this. Give him loves from me.

**Medusa** · 01-05-2010, 05:08 AM

I figured it out as I was lying in bed last night: Boo is mad at me for taking his Pidge away and not bringing her home. If you'll recall, when I took her over to him as we were leaving for Dr. Lee's so that he could say goodbye, he turned away and made a sound as if to say "Leave me alone!" He still loves me, as is evident by the fact that he comes to me for love and attention, but he wants it only when he comes to me now. If I try to show him affection at any other time, he becomes aggravated.

Yodie is mad at me, too. She's had that collar on for a month now and she's really depressed. I give her plenty of attention, too, but when I have to shove meds down her throat and squirt meds in her ear twice a day, she gets furious! She's had enough and she avoids me now. She won't sleep w/me either. And it's not going to get any better for a while b/c even if the incision stays closed today after the stitches are removed, she still has to wear the collar for a while b/c of her eye, poor girl.

Boy, do I feel like a villain!

**Anikaca77** · 01-05-2010, 09:37 AM

That's a very good point.

Time will heal hopefully.

My prays for you and Boo Bear and Coco Puff.

Melissa

**phesina** · 01-05-2010, 01:55 PM

Awwwwww, for you and your kitties. Not an easy time of it for any of you.

Lots of {{{{{HUGS}}}}} and ~~~~~PURRS~~~~~ to you all.

**catmandu** · 01-05-2010, 03:46 PM

I know that Joseph must miss John Hancock, they were such good friends and always sitting together.
And we all miss Moose the MagnfiCat who was such a Social Butterfly of a Cat and whose PURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR RRRRRRRRRRRRRR made everyone feel better!!

We are praying that Boo will realize that what happened was not your fault.
Maybe when Pidge visits , things will be cleared up.