Cass please feel free to Pm me anytime, I have fibromyalgia as do quite a few of our PT members and did you know lupus and fibro have lot in common,the aches and pains,fatigue etc, but Lupus is an auto-immune disorder and causes inflammation and interferes with organ function whereas fibro does not, however sometimes they are even mis-diagnosed, because they are very similar, and often lupus sufferers do have fibro as well, so i think i can well understand some of what you are going through, i was 35 when i was diagnosed and i can well empathise and offer you any support you may need so please don't hesitate, i am here for you.