I'm almost at my wits end here. Grandma went and used the litter box to pee. No problems. No interference or even hisses from anyone. Then she goes to the bedroom and POOPS!!!

I took her over and showed it too her and told her NO!!!!!!!!! Never EVER do that!!! So, she ran and hid under the bed.

Oh, great! Now she's frightened of the 3 plus me. I just crawled in bed and cried. I don't know what to do. It's so odd that it took all this time for her to act up. Maybe I should give her some alone time with me every day with them locked out of the bedroom. A little girl time for just us. If she ever forgives me, that is.