I hate guys...seriously.

[pomtzu]

You're too young to be in a serious relationship - and so is he if he doesn't even have his license. I hardly think he knows what love is at his age. Remember - most guys will tell a girl most anything they want to hear, and there's usually a motive behind it.

Enjoy yourself- play the field and have fun - don't tie yourself down to just one guy. You've got your whole life ahead of you, so experience being free now. You have the opportunity to meet so many nice guys, not jerks, and in no time you'll recognize the difference between the two. You can't possibly do that if you're in a relationship with just one.

Have you tried dating with a group of kids that are just friends and no serious one on ones? You'd probably find that it's a lot more fun for now. My granddaughter is a senior in h.s. - has not one boyfriend - but a lot of boys (and girls) that she is friends with. They all go out together and have a great time without getting serious. They are enjoying time with each other and have the opportunity to get to know different types of personalities, and form opinions of what they would look for in a long term one on one relationship. I know not many kids are willing to do that, but it works for all of them. Maybe it would work for you.

So remember (and not meaning to sound corny here), but you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your Prince.

Good luck - and play it cool...............


ETA:

BTW - no need for you to feel foolish. We've all been down the same road. It's just a matter of live and learn.

[beeniesmom]

Hey! Be friends first!

The best relationship I had and still have is with my husband.
We were best friends for a long time before we realized that we loved eachother more than friends do.

Anyway... you probably won't wanna hear this but just have fun for now: Don't get into important relationships yet. You gotta just have a good time.

Also, the right one will pop up when you least expect it. You'll be stinky from gym or just having a bad hair day and you'll meet him....

[beeniesmom]

enjoy yourself- play the field and have fun - don't tie yourself down to just one guy. You've got your whole life ahead of you, so experience being free now. You have the opportunity to meet so many nice guys, not jerks, and in no time you'll recognize the difference between the two. You can't possibly do that if you're in a relationship with just one.

so true!

[moosmom]

Alysser,

Don't feel bad, girl. I've come to the conclusion that most guys are pigs. That's why I'm glad I'm single.

[Asiel]

Too young to be taking this stuff seriously. Both of you needed time to grow up. Your boyfriend isn't ready for a serious relationship and neither are you. It's a big world out there, give yourself time to meet the right guy for you, and believe me the right guy will come along.
For now, just make friends and have fun, never mind trying for the perfect relationship at your age. In a few years you'll look back on this and know it wasn't the real thing for either of you.
Time to enjoy life and explore different roads for now.

[caseysmom]

I don't remember saying you could have a boyfriend seriously there is nobody good enough for my daughter so just put the boys on hold..okay?

[Alysser]

I don't remember saying you could have a boyfriend seriously there is nobody good enough for my daughter so just put the boys on hold..okay?

LOL I'm sorry mom, I forgot D: Well lo-and-behold, this a-hole has a new GF now. It sucks to be her. I was told I should warn her off, but honestly, I think it's better that she learns from experience, because like me, when you're mesmerized by a guy you don't listen to your friends. I'm done with this jerk, I really am.

Thanks guys for the support. I know not all guys suck, I have alot of guy friends. I've had crushes on a few of them, but it was never long and I don't really want to date any of them. They are really good friends of mine though. I am not a believer in teenagers not knowing what love is, that's not true, only IMO, but I guess he wasn't mine. Karma is my best friend. Thanks so much for the support guys. I am so done with dating for awhile. 2 failures at relationships is enough for one year, thank you very much.

[k9krazee]

I just wanted to reitterate what a few others have said - don't tie yourself to one guy yet, go out on dates with different kinds of guys, hang out, be friends with them. I never had that in high school and only a little bit in college. It's something that I wish I would have experienced more before jumping into a serious relationship. Not that I'd change the life/future I've chosen now, but just something to think about. And they're right - the right person for you will come around when you least expect it. Plus, once you leave high school you'll rarely see these people again! Don't waste your time on the drama.