Is this fair?

[pomtzu]

I have to agree with what others said. If she's paying your bills, then she can make the rules.
However, I do think they are somewhat strict for a 21 year old.

If I may ask, why don't you pay your insurance and phone bill? You indicate that you are working, so what are you doing with your money, that you can't pay that? Do you give your mother anything in the way of room and board - do you help with groceries?

I'm not being nosy - just trying to get a better picture and maybe some suggestions for you.

[Genny]

I have to agree with what others said. If she's paying your bills, then she can make the rules.
However, I do think they are somewhat strict for a 21 year old.

If I may ask, why don't you pay your insurance and phone bill? You indicate that you are working, so what are you doing with your money, that you can't pay that? Do you give your mother anything in the way of room and board - do you help with groceries?

I'm not being nosy - just trying to get a better picture and maybe some suggestions for you.

Well right now I am workin at chickfila and I don't get many hours they have hired sooo many new people and alot of us are having our hours cut a lot. I only make like $250-$300 every other week and I am tryin to save up some money. I pay for my gas and buy my own clothes, makeup stuff like that that's like for 'me' and I have offered to pay the ins. on my car but my mom says she doesn't want me to have to spend my money on that. She says as long as she has it she'll pay for it...I appreciate that a lot and I'm so grateful that my parents are doing this for me...but it's just unfair sometimes when my friends go out and I have to have my bf bring me home early...but yea I guess I get what ya'll are saying, but it still aggravates me....