Hey--Question!! Confused here :(

**aTailOf2Kitties** · 03-12-2009, 07:53 PM

perhaps he likes you as a friend but realizes you like him more than that, and he's trying hard not to send the wrong message? Go hang out with a group, but if you text and call and all that, you might make him a little edgy if he's trying to keep it "friendly" for now. Do you live close together?

**snowbelle15** · 03-12-2009, 08:11 PM

I agree with TailOf2Kitties. I have a friend that I 'like-like', but he only likes me as a friend. He'll ask me to go hang out with him and his friends, but not just us two.

He probably just wants to be friends. I still think you should talk to him about it. You guys seem like such good friends.

**Genny** · 03-14-2009, 08:54 PM

thanks ya'll

atailof2kitties, yeah we live like only 10 minutes away from each other

**carole** · 03-16-2009, 03:09 PM

Hi Genny and welcome back, firstly find out if he is still seeing this girl, you may have already mentioned it and i missed it in your post, but that would be my first priority,if not then keep talking chatty friendly talk with him, and go out with him as friends, if anything is going to develop it will in time, but one thing for sure don't let it become too complicated, you are both young, so enjoy life,and his friendship.

**Maya & Inka's mommy** · 03-16-2009, 05:23 PM

I agree with the others! Send him a message that you want to talk to him, and try to meet somewhere f.e. in a park or a café. Ask him straight what his plans with you are? Is it just "a" friendship, or does he want more?
Listen very well, and follow your heart then

good luck

!!

**AllAmericanPUP** · 03-16-2009, 08:41 PM

Don't try to be cool or hard to get or anything like that, playing games is a waste of time.

Be confident and tell him how you feel, i mean don't be desperate or anything crazy like that, just tell him hey i thought you liked me and then i don't hear from you for 5 months..that's a little strange so what's up?

I've done the whole game playing thing with guys and trust me it aint worth it. Any guy that is worth anything isn't going to play games.

**Genny** · 03-31-2009, 11:36 PM

Hey thankyou guys so much for listening to me and helping me out here. I'm gonna write ya'll back later about everything w/ alec incase ya'll wanna know

talk to you later guys