The frustrations of needy, clingy men!!

**RICHARD** · 03-03-2009, 04:45 PM

Originally Posted by Catty1

RICHARD, it isn't a list of stalkers, it's a list of search results ABOUT female stalkers (and there are some males in the mix, as many of the results are from studies).

I know.....I was just making a joke.

**Catty1** · 03-03-2009, 06:29 PM

My bad...I must have left my brain in the car!

**jennielynn1970** · 03-03-2009, 09:21 PM

Ugh... ok, so I can't even be "just" friendly. I tried. The overly needy and clingy just gets worse. Should have just removed myself from the get go. He's a nice guy, he just needs to get more self assured.

**Karen** · 03-03-2009, 10:00 PM

Here is a direct link to the study to which Catty1 is referring
http://pn.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/37/3/22

**kitten645** · 03-04-2009, 12:55 AM

I am a firm believer in first impressions. If he creeped you out in this early stage, it will only get worse. No matter WHAT he says. It reminds me of that 'Oh honey I love you so much. Please change!" joke. That's who he is. Get away from him.

Claudia

**sumbirdy** · 03-04-2009, 02:07 AM

He seems like he has a big self-esteem problem, and because of that he's probably controlling. Does he want to know where you are all the time? If not, I can see that one coming next. I'd steer WAY clear of him. I met a guy online once that sounds like this. He all but proposed to me after a week, and we had never actually met, there wasn't even a date set to do that!

It scared the heck out of me. I say run for the hills! Don't ever look back, this guy sounds creepy.

**jennielynn1970** · 03-04-2009, 07:30 AM

Not just steering clear, but gone!!

I tried to be nice. That's just me. Nice just didn't work. It just made it worse. He was "in love" with me!! Ummm... you don't know me!!! Seriously, wft?! That and he "didn't like" my guy friends. Did you know them?? Did you ever meet them?? NO... so back off buddy. SCARY DUDE!!!!

So much for trying to be nice and be friendly. It's not worth it in this case. He is now blocked and removed from accounts as friends, etc...