Quote Originally Posted by RICHARD View Post
I go back to the woman in Cah Lee Fuh Nee ah that lost her three kids when a truck hit the car they were in. She goes to have three to replace the lost kids, by in-vitro and her life is complete again.

I say BS and it shows that some people refuse to move on and live a normal life- This couple decides to get a replacement set of kids.

Me? I'd be too heartbroken to even think about 'replacing' my children.
I become so angry every time you MISREPRESENT this situation.

This couple had three children. The children were killed in a tragic accident. The mother was driving -- stopped on an exit ramp when she was rear-ended by a semi traveling at a high rate of speed.

The children were all killed.

Because of her age, remaining childbearing years and other medical consideration she, her husband and her doctors chose invitro.

Because of her age three embryos were implanted in the hopes of one healthy child. All three "took" and she was delivered of triplets.

They very much wanted to be parents. I do not think it was a "miracle" but rather a private decision and a medical outcome.

I do not know how I would feel or what I would do if my three children were killed and neither do you RICHARD. You do not know you would be "too heartbroken" to think of having more children.

And I think your statement that they should "move on and live a normal life" and to suggest they were after "replacement children" is disgusting.

However, very typical that you speak of "her" and what "she" did wrong immediately after complaining about people not holding fathers responsible.

If you actually read anything about this story you would know how often she and her husband have spoken of that their lives will never be the same and will always ache for the loss of the three children. But of course, you know better than they do.