Lara, my heart is breaking and I'm all teared up that you have to make this decision, but you have to think the way Mary described below.

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I think you just have to ask yourself, "Will tomorrow be better(or worse) than today for Barney, or will it just be more of the same?...Is he really living, or is he just existing?
Barney have been such a trooper and you have done absolutely everything you could for him - thank you for that! Barney has known love in his last few months and that is what matters now.

Lara, we're right here with you and Barney in spirit, sending all our love and strength to get through this. Sit with Barney whenever you can and tell him how much we all love him.

I like that you will have the vet give him a sedative, then Barney will be feeling good when he leaves, and you will rememeber him that way. I'm also glad that you will have him cremated - pick a wonderful spot in your garden and you can visit and put flowers and little toys for him.

Hugs to you and lots of kisses to dear sweet Barney.