When family attacks/elder care and sibs rant.

[Medusa]

Good News is GOOD!

OK, break's over ...

Let's go deliver a few Big {{{Mom'sHugs}}}!

I second that emotion.

[RICHARD]

I second that emotion.

DONE!

Had a nice time, watched her eat lunch and made a date for MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL!

Her broncos are playing my raid-duhs on the opener, Dinner is on me and I can't wait!

[Medusa]

DONE!

Had a nice time, watched her eat lunch and made a date for MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL!

Her broncos are playing my raid-duhs on the opener, Dinner is on me and I can't wait!

Atta boy!

[Cinder & Smoke]

Let's go deliver a few Big {{{Mom'sHugs}}}!

DONE!

Had a nice time, made a date for MONDAY NIGHT FOOTBALL!

Dinner is on me and I can't wait!

Now, don'cha feel a LOT Better?

I'l bet MOM feels better.

Good on'ya, RICHARD!!

[Catty1]

COOL! WAY TO GO!

And the wittle envelope heading your way has 'sharing' stuff too. Hopefully by end of next week, beginning of next.

[jennielynn1970]

Awe... see, that's good that you did that. I'm glad that things are better with you and your mom.

Hope she keeps feeling better!!

[RICHARD]

Update?

I have found out that most of my worries are promoted by the people who I trust in and the people who are distant are the ones I can count on.

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My older sister, ever the drama queen, reported that a worker at the home had 'dumped ice water' on my mom one night. She called my other brother to say that the owners of the rehab center were investigating.

"Mom was crying all day and is really distraught."

Distraught-that is the key word in the witch's vocabulary. When my brother told me this I hadn't heard anything about it. I told him that it probably was an accident and not to worry. My mother always 'cries' after my sister talks to her. I found out later that this was the story, it was all an accident and nothing more came of it.

I also have a little problem with my SIL. She has let me down, big time and isn't woman enough to admit that she's not playing on 'the team'.

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I had a nice long talk with my little brother yesterday and that is where I found some support and more than enough common sense.

[jazzcat]

Ah yes, the family drama! I know how you feel Richard. My SIL is... well I can't say on this family forum but anyway she causes me the most grief. I recently found out from my Dad's neighbor that SIL called her (the neighbor is a florist and SIL was ordering flowers for a funeral) and she told the neighbor that they (brother and SIL) pay me to care for my Dad and that I don't take good care of him so she is going to move him to where they live and put him in a nursing home since I just cash in while he suffers. The neighbor luckily knows SIL is a nut but she still called me to ask me to never lever SIL get her hands on Dad.

BTW, no one pays me to care for my Dad. I get no money for it and in fact it costs me money in gas and in time because I can't work because I never know when Dad will need me. Burns me up to think she has told people who know me that she pays me to do it!

She lies about everything. Did I tell the one where she told people where her daughter attended school that she and my brother bought the Giant Pandas at the National Zoo in D.C. from China and donated them to the zoo? Or that she was Miss TN years ago? Those are just a few of the millions of lies she tells. Nut job I tell you!!!! Hehe, hubby wanted to get her a stuffed panda with a Miss Tennessee banner across it for Christmas that year.