Scared for my son. Please help w/comments *Update 4/16*

[Medusa]

What kind of person does that??!!

A self centered one, that's what kind. I can't imagine doing that to a person. If she doesn't have feelings for him, ok, fair enough. You can't fake what ya ain't got. But her timing and her total lack of compassion is what gets me. He said that it's like she flipped a switch and just turned off. No signs, no warning, no cooling off. Just done. Period. She called him and wants to meet to talk further and he put her off until he's feeling better. This is not like my son at all. He's always been one to say if there's a dealbreaker, then so be it. He said that he's healing physically, emotionally and mentally and it's all too much for him right now. Personally, I don't trust her now. If she wants to get back together, she'll do it again. I wouldn't want to wait for the other shoe to drop. Enough about her. My son is improving and that's all I care about. This isn't his first relationship and it won't be his last. His heart will heal just as his body is healing.

[Grace]

Better he finds this out now, rather than get married and then she wants out - and takes him to the cleaners in the process.

He needs to ban her from his life - forever!!

[Medusa]

Better he finds this out now, rather than get married

Well, my son doesn't believe in marriage. He feels it's an outdated idea. (Famous last words, huh?) He could change his mind, of course, but it isn't too likely in the near future, that's for sure.

[catfamily]

he'll want to get married as soon as he meets the ONE!
he'll say...mom...i think i met THE ONE!

[cassiesmom]

Medusa, how is your son getting along?

[Medusa]

I spoke to him last night and he's going to call me again today. He feels that he's still at 85%. He just can't seem to get the strength back in his left arm and hand and he's concerned that he has permanent muscle damage. The drs. did tell him that it takes a while to build new muscle tissue because he did experience muscle damage. The muscle tissue actually died so it takes a while to build new. He may have done even better if his girlfriend hadn't broken up w/him during all this but, all in all, he's doing much better. I just don't want him to overdo it now. He needs rest more than anything.

Thank you so much for asking.

[phesina]

Mary, I'm so glad to know he's doing better.. slowly but surely is the way to go. My kitties and I are all still praying and sending our loving good wishes.

Hugs and purrs,
Pat and cats