Scared for my son. Please help w/comments *Update 4/16*

[Medusa]

The "no appetite" thing could be due to the Prednisone.

I forgot to mention that his dr. took him off the Prednisone. He was only on it for 4 days. He said that Prednisone masks other diseases so he felt it wouldn't do him any good. Funny but when he was on it, he didn't get any better. When he went off it, he started to improve. His dr., my dr. and my friend who is a nurse, all say that his comeback has been remarkable. It usually takes 3-6 weeks before you see improvement and he's almost back to normal.

His "girlfriend", for lack of a better word, says she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. She was just looking for an out and she found one. Better that he find out now than when he was in deeper but I still think her timing was awful. My Mama Tiger claws have definitely come out on this one.

[catfamily]

I have to say that I am really upset and angry at His Girlfriend.What kind of person is she anyway?
One great thing is...he'll learn to pick the RIGHT one next.He'll see through everyone and their faults before giving his love again.
He'll be a better man and find a perfect wife and have a great family later on.
Don't worry...it's best for him to find out now about her.
The feeling of loss from her will pass,right after another lady starts flirting with him
He'll be fine,don't worry.
Mom's love is forever...and THAT is what counts
He'll have his own family later on...he's still young.
He's VERY lucky to have you.

[jennielynn1970]

God, and that girlfriend was a nurse as well??? What can you say about her bedside manner?? That just sucks that she would break up with him when he is sick and feeling so down. She must be a terribly self-centered person. Reminds me of the ex-wife of the marine on the Extreme Makeover Home Edition from last night (compassion-wise...)... Marine loses leg in Iraq, comes home, is going through rehab to get mobility back, and wife leaves him with the 4 kids to go off on her own. What kind of person does that??!!

[Medusa]

What kind of person does that??!!

A self centered one, that's what kind. I can't imagine doing that to a person. If she doesn't have feelings for him, ok, fair enough. You can't fake what ya ain't got. But her timing and her total lack of compassion is what gets me. He said that it's like she flipped a switch and just turned off. No signs, no warning, no cooling off. Just done. Period. She called him and wants to meet to talk further and he put her off until he's feeling better. This is not like my son at all. He's always been one to say if there's a dealbreaker, then so be it. He said that he's healing physically, emotionally and mentally and it's all too much for him right now. Personally, I don't trust her now. If she wants to get back together, she'll do it again. I wouldn't want to wait for the other shoe to drop. Enough about her. My son is improving and that's all I care about. This isn't his first relationship and it won't be his last. His heart will heal just as his body is healing.

[Grace]

Better he finds this out now, rather than get married and then she wants out - and takes him to the cleaners in the process.

He needs to ban her from his life - forever!!

[Medusa]

Better he finds this out now, rather than get married

Well, my son doesn't believe in marriage. He feels it's an outdated idea. (Famous last words, huh?) He could change his mind, of course, but it isn't too likely in the near future, that's for sure.

[catfamily]

he'll want to get married as soon as he meets the ONE!
he'll say...mom...i think i met THE ONE!

[cassiesmom]

Medusa, how is your son getting along?