I am glad that you realized that the father is no good for you now. I agree with catnapper that too many women take too long to figure that out. I'm glad that the new boyfriend is stepping up for you. I also agree that it might be good for you to find other women in the same position as you - I am sure that you could find a support group or even an online forum that would be good. I do know that you have a good support system, so I am happy for that.