I know I complain alot but...*rant*

[crow_noir]

*hugs*

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Sounds like a perfectly normal sibling relationship to me

[Alysser]

Thanks guys, she just called me immature because I go on roller coasters. I am confused on that, because I don't get what roller coasters has to do with immaturity. I am thinking about not letting her in my room anymore until she stops, it would teach her a lesson since she comes in every waking moment to find clothes or shoes. So we'll see how this works.

[JenBKR]

Is your sister older or younger? My relationship with my sister was quite similar when I was your age. She's 2 1/2 years younger than me, and she always dressed what I called 'prissy.' I was the t-shirt and jeans kinda gal (still am haha). My mom's style is a lot like my sister's. I just want to be comfortable, I really don't care much how it looks. Sis and I sure didn't get along at time, we are so different on so many levels. After I moved out of my parents' house, we got really close. It's funny how much our relationship changed when we didn't live together anymore I know it's not easy, but you'll get through it. ((((hugs))))

[mruffruff]

My sister is 13 years younger than I am. I moved out when I was 18 and she was 5. I was the oldest, she was the youngest. And she was the spoiled brat!!!

We had very little contact though the years. She had her life, I had mine. I moved from Michigan to Ohio and then to South Carolina.

After 46 years, she moved to my town. We found we are a lot alike and are now best friends

Never thought that would happen.

Your room should be off limits to her unless you invite her in (and vice versa!).
She should respect you as long as you respect her, too.

[Argranade]

That sucks,

If it was not for un - mature people this earth would be lame.

I like band shirts but in the girl styles, but what does it matter to your sister?

Why does she not go buy her own clothes?

If my brother said a band I liked sucked I would tell him '' Well at least they don't suck as much as your face does'' Hahahahha! then I would start swearing.... yeah I know it does not solve the problem but I'm no family helping expert lol. I dout your like me so ... just keep your room door locked or somthing?

Sorry.

[Chilli]

I've gone through this with my sister. =D
Years ago my sister(four years older than me) did the exact same thing to me. The awesome thing about it was that I had a lock on my bedroom door and she didn't have one on hers, so I took it upon myself to ban her from my room. We often bickered, still, but atleast she wasn't invading my "territory". Afterall, we had totally different styles and tastes in music. She was an all A student, and I always made C's & D's(Its still that way! ). Overall, we just didn't clash. We just learned to keep our distance from eachother.

Ever since my sister got out of highschool, we have become best friends. She acts just as immature as me at times. Her group of friends and mine hang out all the time, almost every afternoon. I know my sister doesn't like some bands I listen to, and I don't like some of the stuff she listens to. We just hold our tongues and get over it.

Haha, so i guess what I'm trying to say is to just hold it out. Keep your distance & get to a point where your sister can't get under your skin. Don't let her know that what she does gets you mad. =D
(((hugs))) Sisters can be sucha big pain sometimes.

[mike001]

Gave me such a good laugh. Sounds like your typical sibling relationship to me...lol. You guys will be so glad to have each other when you get older. Your sis doesn't hate you and you don't hate your sis. Think of life without her and you'll feel differently. in a few years anyway.

[crow_noir]

I think so far that is the best advice. Ask to have a meeting with your parents and your sister and ask for your room to be off limits to her unless you invite her in.

Your room should be off limits to her unless you invite her in (and vice versa!).
She should respect you as long as you respect her, too.

[king2005]

I think so far that is the best advice. Ask to have a meeting with your parents and your sister and ask for your room to be off limits to her unless you invite her in.

My mom did the opposite... SHe gave my sister a BOLT & chain!! I wasn't allowed to have anything... so all my stuff kept getting stolen.. I lost both my NES + 30 games & hundreds of dollars

my mom never liked me

[crow_noir]

Grrrr I can't stand parents like that. My best friend's mom was like that.

While the rest of the children got nice bedrooms upstairs he was given a mattress in the closet in the basement! It worked out to his advantage though because it afforded him some privacy. Still, if anything ever went wrong he got blamed for it.

My mom did the opposite... SHe gave my sister a BOLT & chain!! I wasn't allowed to have anything... so all my stuff kept getting stolen.. I lost both my NES + 30 games & hundreds of dollars

my mom never liked me