Quote Originally Posted by columbine
Yes, that's exactly what I meant! It's just an inherently human thing, I think. We've got these huge brains, and we're used to being able to use them to PLAN AHEAD. But sometimes you just can't, and beating yourself up over other people's nastiness is counterproductive.

Love, Columbine
<whew>. I so hate to interpret what someone else says....lest I miss the mark.