I am sorry Audrey. Two thoughts, first I think it would be great if you worked with Zeke to be a Therapy dog. You already know that his jumping won't be acceptable, but that is alright, you have time to work with him (yes, you can you are a wonderful dog owner). And maybe try agility or frisbee with him. I heard you say that they are the only training group around, but if you get involved with them in an activity where all of the dogs aren't working at the same time it may still be as much fun for Zeke and less stressful for you. Good luck to you, and hugs to Zeke.