Urgent! I Need Help!

[Cataholic]

Of course, I only want Jax to be healed, healthy and happy.

However, what a huge lesson this is for the "oh, maybe she is young..." or "maybe we are misunderstanding her..." or the "lets give her the benefit of the doubt" people on this thread, and every other thread that immediately had people questioning things: it is pretty easy to spot someone telling a huge lie. Like she did. And, the next person that pms me and says, "let's just give this person the benefit of the doubt.." needs to remember this thread.

People that lie are liars. They don't tell the truth. Everything they say is immediately suspect from here on out for me.

[Vela]

Of course, I only want Jax to be healed, healthy and happy.

However, what a huge lesson this is for the "oh, maybe she is young..." or "maybe we are misunderstanding her..." or the "lets give her the benefit of the doubt" people on this thread, and every other thread that immediately had people questioning things: it is pretty easy to spot someone telling a huge lie. Like she did. And, the next person that pms me and says, "let's just give this person the benefit of the doubt.." needs to remember this thread.

People that lie are liars. They don't tell the truth. Everything they say is immediately suspect from here on out for me.

Couldn't have said it better myself. I am glad Jax is better, but there is no need to lie. Lying, especially once caught, just makes you look bad, even if it's only "online". Most people can tell when others are really lying or exaggerating thngs and nobody here wants to have that happen. You will find this place and every other place you go a MUCH happier environment without the lies, then you also won't have to try to defend yourself against the lies and suspicion. It's okay to disagree with others, many of us do, but no need to lie to try to cover it up. Just be honest and you will get along just fine. I am glad Jax is better and I hope you learned a good lesson that can help you in the future, not just here but in life in genral. Good luck to you.

[dab_20]

Well, honesty is the best policy but you shoulden't have lied in the first place. People lose trust in you. This is a website, so all she has to do is leave, I doubt she learned her lesson. But you will eventually learn in life. Be honest right from the start next time.