Ditto. How hideous that your mother uses that language to you! You're NOT one of her "friends". That;s how she interacts with you? I hope you rise above that and don't use the same language to add fuel to the fire. That's so awful to treat you like that. Can you live with your dad? I agree, he sounds like a sweet, sweet man. If I can ask, how old ar you? I forgot. Your mom has major issues, and they're NOT yours! She's the adult. Pick a state, because it seems like we're all anxious to rescue you. The weather isn't bad here. You're more than welcomed.