I should have learned the first time... *RANT*

[Luvin Labs]

Originally posted by finn's mom
From what I understand, she lives with both of them. Meaning sometimes with her dad, sometimes with her mom. I'm pretty sure that's what's up. Less confused?

Ah, thanky finns. Now I'm not so confused

Then she needs to tell your dad/thecourts/whoever that you want to live with your dad, since you are afraid of her and what she might do. Audiotape her demeaning you for proof.

Speaking from a similar experience, staying there in that situation after so many people have said to get out of it is just showing how much power she has over you. Think of us here at PT giving you prayers and good thoughts and think of other good things to help you~!

Pack your things, call your dad, and get the hell out. It may not sound simple with you being IN the situation, but it IS that simple. Wait till she is not there, pack up the necessary things and call your dad. I've seen that advice here a LOT. Getting yourself OUT of that situation will be the best thing for you.

I may not know all the facts to judge, but I see what I see in your posts and am just stating my opinions based on that. I see a girl who is NOT WEAK, but so afraid that she can't even stand up to this person (again, not even going to call her a mother) because of how she treats you. I see your dad stating that all you have to do is call and he'll be there. CALL YOUR DAD to come get you and take you to the (imwo) place you can call home. Who the hell cares about that person's feelings when she obviously does not care about yours? You don't even have to TELL her that you don't want to live with her, write a quick note (with the help of PTers or your dad or whoever)... The sooner you get out of there the sooner you will be happier than you have ever been.

Now start packing!

**hugs**