I should have learned the first time... *RANT*

[Luvin Labs]

I agree with finnsmom and most everyone here!!!

I could call my dad this second and tell him that I want him to come and get me. But I feel this overwhelming guilt that I have to be here... but my dad tells me that I don't ever have to be at one or the other if I don't want to. I just feel so guilty and like a horrible person if I tell my mother I don't want to stay with her

This quote confuses me. You said you live with BOTH of them, but you say "my dad tells me that I don't ever have to be at one or the other if I don't want to" translates to me that you could live with your mom OR your dad, indicating they don't live together... so I'm confused

Now, I don't mean to be/sound mean but...

She is cruel to you. She is worthless as a mother if she keeps treating you like this. I wouldn't call her 'mom' with what I've read here. I wish I could see her and frankly I'll give her my two cents (after hearing her side that is)...

These posts from you (don't feel bad) piss me off (i.e. your mother pisses me off, and your dad too!!!) since it doesn't seem like anything is improving for you...

YOU are AFRAID of her.

Let me repeat that...

YOU ARE AFRAID OF HER.

STOP feeling like you are a horrible person for how she treats you. She treats you like shit and she IS NOT A GOOD MOTHER, mainly for how she treats you from what I've read in these posts she is mentally abusive of you and seems like she's getting to be physically abusive as well, or close to it...

Have you talked to your dad about this? How afraid you are? How you cry? He needs to have a serious sit down with your mom or he is just enabling her abusive (whether it be mental or physical) behavior towards you.

Your mom needs a serious action taken against her from what I've read. A talk with your dad MIGHT help. Hopefully it will. He's seeing how she treats you right?????

But you also need to start stepping up and standing your own ground against her. You caving in empowers her more over you every time she does this shit. Stand your ground, speak up, and let her know you will take NONE of her shit anymore and then back that up with actions (i.e. NOT getting the money, NOT telling her where it is-if you do.! Don't give her your money. Hide it somewhere she won't find it. Don't give in to her!


I'm not saying this to make you feel crappy or whatnot, I'm saying all this because I care and HATE to see you in this position. I'd love to take a drive over there and see things for myself and give you a big hug, as you see you have a LOT of PT support!

Take care, BE STRONG, and don't let her get you down!