Dearest Megan I just want to kidnap you as well, and throw my arms around you and give you the biggest hug ever.

Your mother is behaving very erractic and irresponsible, the way she talks to you is appalling, she is mean't to be a role model for you and set good examples.

Take pride in knowing Megan despite your mother's seemingly lack of maturity in this field , you are turning out to be one great girl, sometimes adversity and situations such as you are being put through, have a positive side, still there is no reason why you should have endure this behaviour from your mother.

Be strong and brave sweetheart and stand up to her, it will only probably take the one time and then she will know she can no longer maniupulate you like she is.

I understand what an incredible difficult situation you are being put in, you are torn between your love for you mother and what is the best thing to do.

I cannot say it enough Megan , you are a wonderful loving girl, with a lot to offer this world, and it is very sad to me that your mother cannot or will not see that for herself, she is so caught up in her little sad world,and being totally selfish IMO.

I don't mean to diss your mother in any way, as I know you care for and love her, but honestly she does need to start acting more like a mother.

Good luck and huge hugs to you.