Originally posted by dukedogsmom
Wolfsoul, that's really sad about your friend. There's a very young new guy at work whom several of us think is gay but he just got married this past weekend. It's kind of obvious that he isn't straight so we're wondering why he's doing it. I'm thinking just because of parents or the general outside world. I'm afraid he's making a big mistake. I've wanted to talk to him but don't know him and have no idea what I would say to him.

You know, that's funny. My bf acts the same way and a lot of people when first meeting him think he's gay, but he is most definitely 100% straight! He dresses nice (metrosexual) and is going to school for clothing design. He even talks funny, but all his close friends know he could never be anything but straight. I think sometimes people judge without first getting to know the person. So from my point of view and having a bf who keeps himself clean and cares about the way he dresses I know people can get the wrong idea.