If I were married and had kids I would like to know if my child was gay or was lesbian. I think that parents should know that kind of thing about their kids because their children are an important part of their life. I think that it would be a bad idea not to tell your mom because if and when (you know she will eventually) she finds out she will be upset that you didn't tell her and make it seem like you don't trust her. She will always love you no matter what your decisions in life are. Good luck and big ((((hugs))).

Also, I think that answered your question but if not, I voted yes.

Abby