Thanks for all your input...we are not close friends...but we are friends...we see each other at school every day and she does come by my office to see me regularly because she knows I have Gracie and therefore we have something to talk about..but up til now its all been fun and light hearted..now I am just worried and mad..and hope I can keep my cool when she comes to talk to me about it..I know she will expect me to be excited with her and there is no way I can do that...and I won't even try...