Originally posted by Kristl
I'm starting to think that he's trying to push me away...make me get rid of him so he doesn't have to be the one to do it.
It kinda sounds that way. Some men do that, so they're not the "bad guy".

I agree with christa, you're not throwing time away. Now if you stay in a bad relationship when you know it's bad, then you are just wasting your time. I know, I stayed married for nearly 4 years, because "I had time invested". I just ended up wishing I'd gotten out sooner.

Make it better or make a change, and if he doesn't want to help make it better, then you're better off without him.

Good luck!