You and your family will be in my prayers. Tell your Grandma that I've had brain surgery (the tumor I had is called an acoustic neuroma), and while it isn't anything I'd want to do again, it wasn't as bad as some folks feared. Get her really cool, fun slippers - I had giant tiger slippers, and they were the talk of the floor when I began shuffling around, relearning to walk. It just made that part more fun.