Deary CCL,
Your obligation to Mr. Magoo, is too keep him safe and healthy. Happiness is subjective. He is pretty much in control of how happy he is.....My guess is that he will take lots of time and care to fit in any household. If the kitty boy isn't working out for you, I would medicate him to the hilt and then rehome him, allowing the new meowmie all the preparation and forethought you / she/ he can muster.
He is so darn cute. As long as he can manage to control the situation, he will, even though he doesn't know that it is because he is cute and seemingly sweet!
I would also consider contacting a cat behaviorist.....they usually charge about $35 an hour. Bet it would take 10 minutes to figure this guy out!
Rush right to the pharmacy for the pills my dear, you will see all the difference in the world in him. No kidding.
Good luck.
SAS
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