Quote Originally Posted by moosmom View Post
Blue,

Of COURSE I like you!!!!! We agree to disagree, that's all. And I love our debates.

I'm going to give her time. I know she's hurting. But to say that I didn't care because Clyde was a dog instead of a cat really hurt.

I have some babysitting money and will go out and get a card and send it to her. After that I'm done.
I enjoy the debates as well Donna.

To me actions speak louder then cards or letters. She may just need time to see that you werent being less of a friend because you didnt send something she can hold and read. She may be using the cards and notes as a way to get through and cope with her grief.