Quote Originally Posted by kuhio98 View Post
You're living in her home and she's still taking care of you. So, you abide by her rules.

Maybe she's trying to make it a little uncomfortable for you because she thinks it's time you get out on your own and become an adult. (Like you said, when she was your age, she had a lot more responsibility than you do).

I'm not saying that she wants you to leave, but if she continues to take care of you like a child, why would you ever leave? So, maybe if she makes it a little uncomfortable for you, she hopes you will take the next step towards independence.

Is that possible?


Uhhh...I don't think that's what it is...I think she just really wants me to be at home most of the time so she'll know that I'm 'there' 'right there' 'with her'. My dad asks me alot when I'm gonna find me my own place..he's only just talking he doesn't care if I'm still at home, but my mom always speaks up and says that I don't ever have to leave I can stay here forever. I think she'd like that to be honest..and right now I am happy at home...I couldn't get my own place right now even if I wanted to. But..someday....in the future the time will come when I do move out..I don't know when...but I know it will. Honestly...I don't wanna be alone...so I plan on staying here until I get married...which could be a while...so I dunno