I appreciate all your opinions and thank you for your help.

She did not get a reaction from me, nor will she. But the next time she needs to go somewhere or do something where a bus doesn't go (aside from emergencies), maybe it'll give her food for thought. I won't rub her nose in it. Nor will I remind her. I just won't be available.

Hindsight has 20/20 vision. I've always tried to be the kind of mother my Mom was to me, taking her out to dinner (MY treat), going to the Outlet Stores (which takes GAS), taking her grocery shopping, the Buckland Mall, picking her up from work when the weather was really crappy out so she wouldn't have to wait for a bus, hocking jewelry so she would be surprized at Christmas at the IPod I bought her (didn't get the reaction I'd HOPED I would get which I attribute to her disability). I also thought my beloved Mom would be around forever. She died when I was 19. I only wish my daughter would realize that. I thought she'd learn to be a little more independent when I moved to Michigan. Unfortunately, and thank GOD I have the friends that I do, she became very close to my best friend Susie in the 3 years I was gone and relied on HER for rides. *shrugs* I don't know. Maybe I'm being a little TOO sensitive.

I'm going to let it go for now. I want to have a nice holiday with my friends and family.

PTers are the BEST! Have a wonderful holiday everyone! I you guys!!