Thank you ALL so much for your support and openness. Jen, I know that it appears to be wishy-washy with the "keepers" etc.... but people have to understand (or try to) that there are some that you just bond with more, and you hold on and hold on until one day, you realize that you are holding on out of selfishness, and you are actually holding that kitty BACK from a potential good home, where they are the one and only or one of very FEW kitties, and could get more attention! I know you and I and others here shower all of our kitties (no matter how many) with love and affection each and every day .... but couldn't most of us HONESTLY admit that some of them would prefer even more one on one, with less competition?

It's just all part of the rescue life, isn't it?