What have I done to deserve all this crap?

[Karen]

Well, tomorrow, at noon, I'll have to show up at the police station and I'm beginning to get nervous. Never had to do something like this before; makes me feel guilty even though I do no believe I've done anything wrong. Will keep you updated.

Remember that you have done nothing wrong, and the police are there to help you, and you'll do fine!

[Alysser]

Kirsten, I don't know if this is the case, but it's possible. Could this lady possibly be a scam artist? My mom's friend recently backed into an old woman's car in a parking lot. She said, one second the lady wasn't there and then she was. She barely tapped her and the lady claimed she did. They didn't get the cops involved or anything or go through insurance but the lady took it for an "estimate". Said it would cost $1000 to fix. My mom's friend said she barely tapped the car, her car had no damage but the lady's car was a royal piece of crap anyway and was damaged from previous accidents already. The lady kept calling her with these outrageous estimates and she eventually just said "forget it we are going through the insurance companies". I'm not completely sure if she was a scam artist but that sounds a bit fishy.

It's been known to happen, people will claim someone crashed into them while so they can get money or purposely get into accidents like that. Sounds a little fishy. I mean, I'm not sure she would go through with calling the cops though! But hey, if she did, she has dug her own grave!

Good luck tomorrow! (((hugs))) and good thoughts going out to you!

[Scooter's Mom]

How did everything go at the police station? Did it help that you had the receipt with the date on it?

[Kirsten]

How did everything go at the police station? Did it help that you had the receipt with the date on it?

Thanks for asking. Not too many news at this point. I had to sign a written statement of my version, and I was told that the woman who reported me (she's also the car owner) had to show up at the police station on Wednesday. Haven't heard anything ever since. The cop also said that the scratches on my car and her car are not 100% matching, so I hope they will drop the charge. If that's the case, I won't hear anything from them, but at this point, I'm not feeling safe yet. Everytime the telephone rings, I fear it's a call from the police with bad news...

Kirsten, I don't know if this is the case, but it's possible. Could this lady possibly be a scam artist?

Yes, I really think it's something like that! Everything else makes no sense to me. I'm sorry this happened to your mom.



Apart from this, I'm dealing with a lot of backpain again. The symptoms I have now are very much like those I had when I had my disc hernias, so I'm pretty sure it's something like this again. Really, I'm so very tired of all this! My spine feels as if it's about to break.

[GrandChester]

((((((BIG HUGS)))))

I hope she didn't show up at the police station.
I am not in physical pain..but mine is all emotional.
Hang in there for the cats and all your loved ones.
I am glad you are getting assistance with disability and such.
Take care sweet lady!

[Kirsten]

((((((BIG HUGS)))))

I hope she didn't show up at the police station.
I am not in physical pain..but mine is all emotional.
Hang in there for the cats and all your loved ones.
I am glad you are getting assistance with disability and such.
Take care sweet lady!

Thank you so much!!

[carole]

Oh sweet Kirsten when i read your post my heart breaks for you, i truly want you to believe in yourself, you are really good person, and your kitties are lucky to have you, never doubt that please.

We all have bad times and bad days,i know how it feels to have pain issues, depression,when you feel life is just so unfair, and nothing anyone can say or do can really change how you are feeling, all i can say is sweet Kirsten tomorrow is another day, and you never know what is around the corner, there is always light at the end of the tunnel ,although at times things seem so bleak, so horrible, one cannot imagine life ever getting better.

I fear that isolation is not good for you though and will only make things seem even worse, i wish you had someone dear and close to you that you can share your feelings with and someone that can help you and offer you compassion, caring,and understanding,maybe in time you will find that special person, i really hope so, because you certainly deserve it.

I can only tell you not to give up hope, to be true to yourself, and your feelings,i wish there was something i could do , i feel you feel you are all alone, and are giving up, please don't ,we all really do care about you here, and if there is ever anything i can do, whether it is just some one to pm now and then, feel free to do so, always here for you, take care, and GIANT HUGS and i hope with all my being that things will improve and this latest thing with the car is all over soon,and all will be resolved to your liking.

[Kirsten]

Thanks a lot for your kind words, Carole! You're right, the isolation is the worst, and it affects me badly. Sometimes my home feels like a prison. And it's hard ot believe that things will get better one day, when they have been going steadily downhill for so many years. So hard to imagine that I will get my life back, and not to lose any hope...

[carole]

just you let me know if i can help in anyway, although we are many miles apart,i offer my hand in friendship and can be here for you ,just say the word.TAKE CARE sweetie.

[Kirsten]

just you let me know if i can help in anyway, although we are many miles apart,i offer my hand in friendship and can be here for you ,just say the word.TAKE CARE sweetie.

Thank you very much for this, Carole! It's very much appreciated!

[Kirsten]

Bad news: Learned this morning that the case of that "car accident" has now been sent to the public prosecution department. I think it's about time to contact a lawyer, as I certainly don't plan to pay for something I haven't done!

How much **** can a person take?

[blue]

I wish you the best of luck and you have my thoughts, prayers and eHugs. Nobody deserves this much ʇıɥs.

[Kirsten]

I wish you the best of luck and you have my thoughts, prayers and eHugs. Nobody deserves this much ʇıɥs.

Thanks, blue!

[pomtzu]

Wishing you the best, and a positive outcome, Kirsten.

I once had someone file a claim against me. I was pulling into a parking space, and the idiot in the next space opened his door and my car contacted the trim on his door and pulled it loose. Just loose - didn't even bend it or knock it off! Well he jumped out of his car and started raising hell and demanded my insurance info. He carried on like his car was a brand new Mercedes or the like, where in reality it was an old clunker - a real piece of junk. I wasn't going to fight it - I was alone but he had a passenger (partner in crime) to swear that he had the door open and then I pulled in and hit him. A couple of days later I got a call from my insurance company wanting a report of what happened and telling me that he had filed a claim and they were paying out $250 to have the trim replaced. Replaced???? - it could have been snapped back into place. I'm certain that's exactly what this guy did, and pocketed the $250.

Just another case of insurance fraud and someone looking for some free $$$. No wonder insurance rates are so high.

[Kirsten]

@pomtzu: How very annoying! Some people only seem to wait for occasions like that to make some extra money!