I hate guys...seriously.

**Alysser** · 09-21-2009, 08:12 PM

My boyfriend broke up with me last Thursday. I had kind of lost respect for him in the last week of our relationship after he told me he has considered cheating on his last GF.

That should have been a red flag right there, I was just too stupid to realize it. He told me "it wasn't working out". He texted me asking the question, "what would you do if we broke up? not that I'm going to or anything", I said it depends on the circumstances. and then he proceeds to break up with me after saying he wasn't. He said we never see each other. Meanwhile we saw each other on Saturday and he had told me the night before that when he got his liscence in 2 weeks we'd see each other way more.

I can't say I wasn't upset, but we had only been going out for a month.

Then today he posts a survey and making obsessive comments about another girl. Some girl posted "he has the hots for a girl". It's been 5 days since we broke up. I DON'T KNOW WHY I DIDN'T SEE RIGHT THROUGH THIS PLAYER! I myself was a rebound girl. We started dating a weekafter he and his previous GF broke up. I should've known something was up. I feel so dumb and taken advantage of.

This makes me think he cheated on me because he goes to a different school, he would not have broken up with me if he had not seen this other girl. I can't believe what a jerk he is!

I don't even know why I am ranting, this is just so insignificant, I'm just so mad that he walked all over me like that. He told me I meant so much to him and that he loved me. I feel like a fool right now, at least it's over. I just feel bad for all the other people he's gonna take advantage of. I had a gut feeling something about him was off when we started dating, but I was so blinded by his charm. He seemed so nice, but I was so hesitant. Next time, I guess I'll know =(

I am beginning to think the only guy I'll ever like is a dog.

**Husky_mom** · 09-21-2009, 08:47 PM

I´m really sorry.. but it SURELY was for the best... think of it this way... you finally got rid of him...just not worth it..

I some long time ago had a boyfriend that I wanted to break up with for so long but just didn´t come up with the right time.. until he broke with me.. and let me tell you it was such a relief... seriously...

you´ll hate guys for now.. or maybe for a longer while

but take this as experience for the future... this will make you more aware of red flags... it can be hard sometimes as when we are with someone we ARE with someone not fluttering around.. boys are just soooo different.. but eventually some get the idea...lol

don´t let this get to you and move on.. better things are awaiting for you ahead

**Karen** · 09-21-2009, 09:04 PM

Sweetie, it's not ALL guys, I promise. And some of them eventually grow out of this bad behavior as well, just put this one behind ya, okay?

**Taz_Zoee** · 09-21-2009, 09:34 PM

Alyssa, just think of this as a learning experience. You will learn to see these signs with guys in the future. Beware: Some guys can be very sneaky jerks.

It is depressing right now, but you will move on. And a doggie would be a nice distraction.

**CountryWolf07** · 09-21-2009, 09:51 PM

I can understand your frustration - Believe me, you're better off than him... you will find someone SO amazing that you won't believe it, and you'll realize you're lucky and you can't remember how it ever worked out and you feel lucky and blessed.

**kitten645** · 09-21-2009, 10:35 PM

You will eventually learn to trust your female gut and steer clear of the jerks. Just be glad you didn't waste MORE time on the useless piece and that Karma will take care of him. No looking back and regrets..just keep on keeping on!

Claudia

**blue** · 09-21-2009, 10:55 PM

Yep we can bring the suck. I know I did when I was a teen and into my 20s.

Most of us grow out of that type of selfishness, at least us fugly ones do.