Boo Bear and Coco Puff; update 1/2; a weird update; post #41

[slick]

Have things settled down yet Mary???

[Medusa]

Have things settled down yet Mary???

Kinda sorta. Boo and Coco both want to sleep w/me; all the Fur Posse do but I can't have 5 cats in bed w/me. It's all I can do to get any shut eye as it is. I caught Boo ready to bite Coco on the back of the neck again and I put a stop to it. Boo has always been a needy cat but he's uber needy now so I just give him as much lovin' as he can stand. LOL He just seems so lost. I talk to him every day but I know myself that when people keep talking to me and I don't want to hear it, it's irritating and I think sometimes that I irritate him, so if I see his body go rigid, then I know he's heard enough. He just wants to be held so he's usually either on my lap or I toss him over my shoulder and I stand while I rock him back and forth. He loves that.

[Catty1]

Mary, it's a bit late, but I found this site on grieving cats while looking for another grieving site. It might help?

http://www.messybeast.com/cat-grief.htm

I hope you and your babies are well.

[Medusa]

Mary, it's a bit late, but I found this site on grieving cats while looking for another grieving site. It might help?

http://www.messybeast.com/cat-grief.htm

I hope you and your babies are well.

Thank you, Candace. You've been so helpful.

[pomtzu]

Very interesting article, Candace.