Kay we love you

[Barbara]

I saw this thread about stolen identities etc. and I am very sorry for what happened.

I have the impression someone really hurt Kfamr.

Kay I don't know you very much because you have dogs (cute ones as far as I can see ) and I have cats and we are separated by one- two generations but I thought it might help if everyone who likes you tells you why:

For me it's: your creativity (your jewelry e.g.), your sense of humour (the proposal to Cataholic ) plus the way how I see you to grow up here at PT- going a way from a teenage girl to an impressive personality.

For others it will be different things- but whatever it is: Don't allow anybody to take it away from you.

[LabradorLover]

I agree- I am fairly new here but as soon as I looked at pictures of beautiful Nala, Kiara, and Simba I knew you loved your dogs more then anything in the world. I can't imagin how much it must of hurt you when he/she called Simba overweight It was so untrue You seem like such a great person and a great doggie mom and I hope I get to know you better

[Lexi_Lover]

We all love Kay! She is one of the most loved and popular people here on PT! She always brightens my day when I see the muttlies smiling faces and wagging tails! I could only dream how much fun they have together! She has a lot of diginity! And Kay, don't let ANYBODY take that away from you!

I couldn't imagine a PT without you and your fabulous dogs! With Simba, always so handsome and bright.Thinking of new ways to do things all of the time! Nala, she is so pretty, she loves to meet other people and dogs! Her smiling face always lightens up my day! And Kiara, so adorable and smart! Kay is very proud of all that you know! You're all very special!

Don't let anybody bring you down. We all know how strong you are. I'm glad that I joined PT, and that we are becoming great friends!

[trayi52]

Kay, I don't know what was said, but you are a wonderful person. I know you take such good care of your beautiful Simba, Nala, and Kiara. I am so sorry that things were said that hurt you so deeply.

I consider you a friend and love you lots. Please know that.

Willie

[Cookiebaker]

Yes, I would like to chime in here as well. Kay, you are one of the best & most special people here on pettalk, and I am so sorry that you were hurt.

{{Hugs to you, Simba Nala & Kiara}}

[slleipnir]

I agree! You're a wonderful person, Kay! And I know how much you love your dogs, plus, I saw first hand how well you take care of them. Theblob is full of crap, especialy since she's never met you/doesn't know you (obviously)

Stay around awhile! It wouldn't be the same without you!

[Kfamr]

You all have brought tears to my eyes.
Thank you.
I don't know, it just doesn't feel the same here anymore.
It's felt like people are mad at me for some reason or another because of my feelings, and I was told that maybe I should leave because of my gut feelings.

Maybe it's true, maybe it's not.. i'd hate to lose the wonderful people I have met, but sometimes, especially when you're not in the greatest moods to begin with, the bad outweighs the good... and then it just piles up and squishes you down.

[slleipnir]

I don't think anyone is mad at you, and if they are then it's their problem. You didn't do ANYTHING wrong. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions...just some people don't seem to understand that. I know I'd be upset if I were in your shoes. I hope it gets settles, I hate to see you hurt

[K9soul]

Kay, I admit to not knowing all that much about what went on, but it's obvious you were hurt, and that truly saddens me . But please do not let this person's malicious act get to you, because then they will have won and their purpose will have been fulfilled. Without a doubt you are a much loved and looked up to member here, and BEYOND obvious that your dogs are your sun and stars, the lights of your life, and that there does not exist a dog more loved and well cared for than yours. Don't let them win, Kay, you just keep right on going the way you always have. {{hugs}}

[Aspen and Misty]

We do love you Kay ::hugs::

Think about it this way: We have 8,267 members on this board. 8,266 think your dogs and you are amazing and wonderful! Don't let one person ruinin your time ::hugs::

Ashley

ps: I don't think anyone is mad, I think they just want to put it behind them. But as stated in the therad, it's not US who were attacked, it was you.

[Corinna]

Just sending you a big {{{HUG}}}

[Samantha Puppy]

Kay,

I've gotten in my fair share of internet scuffles. I actually used to be a rather big drama-seeker at another forum, though I never set out to personally offend someone. It was usually a debate over a topic that I was very passionate about and wouldn't back down that escalated into a full-on dramafest. At any rate, when insults began to fly I naturally became upset - at first. Then I began to realize that getting upset over what a virtual stranger says to/about you is NOT worth it. I know you actually *know* a lot of people on here, but the fact of the matter is that those you don't personally know are just screennames on a computer monitor to you - including me!, and there is nothing wrong with that. That's all! What they say may be hurtful, but please remember - it could always be worse.

Remember how you said how horrible it was to come here and not know who you could trust anymore? I went through those same exact emotions last month, only with my husband. Do you know how difficult it is to not know if you can trust the person you loved and trusted enough before to vow to spend the rest of your life with? Imagine that void. And you don't even love the person who said those things about you!

Maybe you didn't like Richard's approach with what he said, but joking aside he did make some valid points... Life is full of hardships and one of these days, you'll have to face really serious, really scary, really hurtful problems in person. I am not, in any way, belittling your thoughts or feelings over what just happened. Like I said, I've been there. But if you learn anything from this experience, it's to take it all in stride. That person doesn't know you. Therefore, anything they have to say may hurt, but doesn't mean anything. They're only trying to get a rise out of you. If you're worried about what everyone else thinks, I think this thread is testament enough that no one believed whoever it was that said those nasty things about you and your dogs, so you don't have to worry that any of us think badly or differently of you.

And there are Jaime's Words of Wisdom. I hope I didn't step on your toes and make you feel bad. I only wanted to tell you that I really honestly understand how you feel and that, as hard as it may be, you just have to let this one roll off your back. It's just not worth it.

[luvofallhorses]

Kay,

I know we got off on the wrong foot and I called you a bad name, but seriously I admire you and your muttlie crew(((hugs)))

[Lillycat]

dont be "squished" kay.......just feel the love!

[aly]

Kay,

Just remember that what goes around, comes around. Even if we don't find out who wrote those horrible posts, they have their own conscience and karma to deal with.

I hope you won't take their words to heart, because none of them were true. It was the ramblings of an immature child.

I've always loved talking to you on AIM, reading your posts, and seeing your pictures. This board wouldn't be the same without you.