Well, I found out what EXACTLY happened to her, why she was left. I had asked Nick's dad if G. (his girlfriends sister) had left a cat out at the farmhouse when she left. He says: "yeah, there were 2 of them. Sharon took one, but the other one they left because it was all sickly looking. It had hair falling out." Which is not true, but whatever. "it probably croaked" he says. Me and Nick shook our heads. I told him she was healthy and I had her. What a bunch of jerks!