Hello again,

Some of you might remember me posting "Introducing a new kitten to your cat' (posted on 26 Sep.04) Where i was worried how am i going to get my residednt cat for 2 yrs accept a new kitten. So with all the information you gave me I did not give in and did not let my cat influence me with all the grouling and hissing she was making. We had this kitten nearly every day visit us since for the time being mum is taking care of her.

Not only the hissing and grouling did not ceise but now lulu is attacking her and also me and my husband. Spoke to my vet about her violance and he gave me some pills to give her which are all natural called pet-ease to help her relax.

She started acting strangely from the day Pippa came by. Lulu was never too frienly as you might recall me saying buy then, at night instead of sleeping with us near my feet, she would sneek up to my stomack area and sleep. It was very strange for me when i found her a couple of times there. She would just wait for me till I sleep. Since I felt this was cheating, then I started calling her to sleep there, she would come and I kind of liked it

But not only +ve things happened. she scrached my face a couple of times, hisses to me every day and does not leave me a second unattended. I actuall feel hated by her. She's super jelous and insecure, she thinks that I don't love her any more. I tried to make her feel better by giving her more attention, talking to her and singing, sort of make her feel more secure but to no avail. Then she makes something bad and I shout to her like yesterday she was hissing at me whenever i pet her or try to be sweet with her.

Yesterday my husband came from work and called her, she wouldn't come. no way , then after some time she came did not give any notice of us what so ever. He went to speak to her and told me that Lulu is no way like she used to be and that I managed to ruin her life by pusshing it far to much this introduction of Pippa. Couldn't sleep at night and I feel so guilty cos Tom is right, now I have a bottle of pills in my right hand and stressed out like hell both me and my cat. Oh God I fell helpless.

Please give me you views.

Thanks
Karen