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    Ja ne

    Yup. I'm hoping that by posting this it will force me to do this. I've been trying to stay away from PT but I've been failing. I'm tired of feeling down when no one replys to me. Ever. I get like 5 people if I'm lucky. I feel ignored and unliked. Wait..that reminds me of real life!! I feel like I don't need it online too. When I first joined, it was so fun. Everything was warm and welcoming and now it just seems different. Everyone seems to have one great online PT buddy..I don't feel anyone would ever consider me one. I know I'm being immature but oh well. I feel how I feel. I've been almost wishing I could die lately. I feel so down and gloomy. I even wish I had the will to do it but that only makes me more sad cause I don't really want to die, I just can't stand the hurt anymore. Don't bother to reply to this. I doubt I'll even come back (I really hope this will be enough to keep me away) and besides, you couldn't be bothered with me before so why bother now. I don't like people feeling 'sorry' for me or whatever you call it.

    There are a few people on here I really like and will miss you can always reach me by e-mail. I think one of the options besides PM is e-mail here right?



    My babies: Josie, Zeke, Kiba, Shadow (AKA Butter)

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    Audrey.

    I've always seen you as a great addition to PT. I LOVE you, as a friend, as a person.

    You have many great talents that I could only dream of having. I don't want to see you go, but if that is what will make you feel better, then so be it.

    I've always seen you as a friend, nothing less. I'm not sure how you feel of me, but my opinion of you will never change no matter what. I believe you are a great person, a great fur-mommy, and a great member of PT.

    It will be a great unfortunate loss if you do leave, in my opinion, and if you do, I for one will miss you and never, ever forget you.

    I've tried my best to reply and converse with you. I hope you don't think i'm ignoring you or i'm making you feel unwanted.

    Hopefully i'll still catch you on AIM, and hopefully you don't have to produce any SR's.

    Please keep your head up.




    and I do see you as....one.....

    ~Kay, Athena, Ace, Kiara, Mufasa, & Alice!
    "So baby take a axe to your makeup kit
    Set ablaze the billboards and their advertisements
    Love with all your hearts and never forget
    How good it feels to be alive
    And strive for your desire"

    -rx bandits

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    oh nooo!

    Please, don't leave. Your not the only one. I don't have a great online pal that I'm always e-mailing or PMing. please stay. I've always enjoyed your pictures of Kiba.

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    Oh, Audrey!

    ((hugs))

    I am so sorry you feel that way. I just wish I could make all of that pain go away.

    You are a true asset to Pet Talk. We all love you here, I just want to let you know that.

    I enjoy seeing your drawings. You have so much talent, girl! We love to see people with talent, and some people like to envy them, like myself.

    You always take great pictures of all of your fur-babies. I enjoyed them. I think we didn't see nearly enough of them. I want to see more.

    I hope you decide to stay. I don't want you to feel pain, but PT is here for you. There are so many wonderful people here, and you are definately included.

    If you don't come back, I hope we keep in touch, friend.

    ((more hugs))

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    I PM'd you.

    {{{hugs}}}

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    Join Date
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    Just because people don't necessarily reply to your threads doesn't mean they aren't reading them! Look at the Views - that's often more important than the Replies, numberwise.

    Hope you are feeling better about life et al soon. Don't feel you need to ever stay away, okay?

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    no! you're my PT friend right? i don't always have time to reply to a lot of threads and posts because im really busy and i usually just read posts. but i've always liked reading your posts and hearing about your pets. so i hope you won't leave PT because you're a really valuable member here

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    Man I know exactly how you feel! I used to have my friend, Heidi, to talk to when I felt like this but...I haven't talked to her in a long time. PLEASE either email me at [email protected], or PM me, or something! I would love to talk to you because I feel pretty well EXACTLY the same and its nice to know I'm not the only one feeling that way.

    -thank you Poppy for the avatar.


    R.I.P. Hanson. You will never be forgotten, and we await the day to see you once again. The imprint you left on my heart will never fade - your big beautiful brown eyes, your big soggy kisses...

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    Don't feel down ........... I know what it is like, but sometimes I read your posts, smile, and don't reply.
    BUT IT IS NOT JUST YOU ........... I do it to alot of other posts too. Sometimes I just don't have the time to respond, but Karen is right - just look at how many times your post is viewed.

    We will really miss you, so please try and stay {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}
    M!
    "No dog is born either vicious or friendly, but rather a blank slate that is moulded, for better or worse, by the owner."

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    No!!! I am one of the lazy one that I don't reply too much. But I do read the thread. Though I do get "discouraged" when I don't get tons of reply, but that doesn't mean you are not valued. Don't leave!
    Jen & Gigi



    Thanks Kay for the set.

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    No, you have to stay! I don't really have any freinds here on PT. I allways look at threads but I don't always reply and that is probally what other people do. I would be really sad if you leave so I hope you feel better.



    {{{{{{Doggy kisses from Duke}}}}}}
    {{{{{{Snuggles from Kally}}}}}}
    {{{{{{Hugs from me}}}}}}




    Please don't go!

    "Old dogs are like old shoes: they are comfortable. They may be a bit
    out of shape and a little worn around the edges, but they fit well."
    NEW ADDITION: 6 lovely Rhode Island Reds!

  12. #12
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    I know EXACTLY how you feel because I feel the EXACT same way....I just havn't left......yet.


    Ash
    Dogs: Nova, Konnor and Sitka

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    I know how you feel. Will chat to you if your on AIM.

    {{Hugs}}

  14. #14
    Join Date
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    Please don't feel down! Everyone feels like this from time to time. Life is never easy. It gets hard, then impossibly miserable, then something truly glorious happens, so keep in there!

    I always read your threads! I reply to a few, but wuld like to do more but I only have so much time.

    I stay away from the dog side because I am usually never responded to... I have two new threads there today lets see how far they go

  15. #15
    Join Date
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    Do you guys realize how many posts hit this site every single day? There is no way that everyone can respond to all of them, even if they try!!!! Audrey, I have always thought I was the death of a thread, not you!! It sounds like you are really down on yourself right now, but please don't judge the number of replies you get to how well you are liked at Pet Talk! If we all did that, we'd all be leaving! And then there would be no one left!

    I post new posts on occasion when I have news or pictures to share. Sometimes they get results, sometimes they don't. And unfortunately, because of the level of activity on this site, they also get pushed down quickly. How many of my posts have you responded to lately? I'm not picking on you, but you brought up this subject, and I thought I'd put myself in your shoes. If I tried to figure out who didn't reply to my posts, I guess I'd be terribly depressed! Because many, even those I consider to be my friends, don't always reply to every post I make, and I believe that usually it is because of lack of time and maybe that they never saw them before they got bumped down past the first page.

    Don't leave! If you leave, then you'll lose a great bunch of people who truly do think of you as a friend!

    Logan

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