For Filou there is only one way: You have to do it yourself and you have to be free and independent while you're doing it. So every evening when I come home from the office he jumps on my shoulders, walks and purrs and gives nosekissies and headbumpies.
You will never be able to pick him up, you shouldn't use your hands, but you can use your head too.
Sorry for the bad technical quality, my poor camera needs daylight to make roughly reasonable pictures and I am afraid they are even worse since Filou broke it.









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