I had an argument with my husband earlier. Tasha has always been allowed to curl up in this one particular old chair for a long time now. When I sit to read (one of my favorite pastimes), she happily curls up in "her" chair and sleeps or just watches me, etc. I know how much she treasures her little spot..

But this morning my husband decided "no dogs on any furniture". I don't think he understands how confusing it is to let a dog do something for so long and then suddenly decide it's off limits. Not only that, but it was something me and Tasha shared that meant a lot to us. I tried to explain all this to him but once he gets something in his head he's like a brick wall.

Then at the end, Tasha who was kinda upset at the arguing jumped up in her chair where she feels secure.. and my husband yelled at her to get off. It nearly brought me to tears to see her look of confusion.

I'm just not sure how to handle this situation