After a lot of discussion and prayer, we've decided that Oliver needs to be an only cat. You all know we've tried everything besides drugging him, something I can't do and feel good about.

I just got off the phone with the behavioralist at the shelter and he said that because after over a month Oliver continues to get worse, he needs a new 1-cat home. He asked "Does he hiss/attack over food, toys or attention?" The answer is no, he attacks/growls/hisses over ANYTHING. None of the cats can even look at him without repercussions.

This morning as I was sitting at the door talking to Micah, Basie came to say "hi". All was interrupted by Oliver lunging at ME! Thank God for the Soft Paws and for the blanket that blocked us.

I am heartbroken, but I know in my heart we've tried everything. The changes in our other cats are unacceptable since Oliver came to live with us. Basil now hides from Oliver, Noel and Olivia stay only in high places unless we are there to defend them. Olivia will only sit in the house part of the cat tree or next to us. Sitting next to us doesn't work anymore, he chased her off the couch last night while she was laying on me.

I know that not everyone will agree with our decision. But let me make it clear how hard this was. I've been very upset for awhile about Oliver and I've tried everything that I've been recommended. The Feliway isn't working and either is the Rescue Remedy. He is the cat he is, and I wont drug him to make him who I want him to be. I wont.

The bottom line is, he is NOT happy and either are the other cats.

We are taking him to our shelter on Saturday. I'll be making some requests on his new placement and will make sure EVERYONE knows he needs to be alone in his new home.

I don't want anyone else to fail him.