I recently adopted a one year old, neutered, declawed male cat (Sylvester) from our local rescue. Although he is glad to see me when I get home from work. He seems to like to sit by himself in the evening away from us. I'm wondering if I should continually bring him into the room with me or leave him alone? I'm also interested if anyone has a clumsy cat. I'm afraid he will hurt himself one day. I've never seen a cat like this. I might add he has a slight deformity on the left side of his face and wonder if this has anything to do with it. By the way, he doesn't purr.

I also have another year old female cat named Kona. Kona is not in the least interested in playing with Sylvester. However, Sylvester clearly wants to be close to Kona. Any help would be appreciated on how I can get Kona to interact and play with sylvester.