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    Is it just me?

    Hi everyone:
    I've been lurking round Pet Talk for so long and always really enjoyed reading everyones pet stories and celebrating or feeling concerned about your life events.
    Now that I have actually joined, I feel like a new girl at a new school and can't quite figure out where I fit in.
    I'm not really comfortable replying to other peoples posts because I feel as though I may be butting in since you all know each other so well.
    Is it just me or did any of you feel the same way when you first joined.

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    First of all, WELCOME TO PT!

    I definitely felt the same way when I first joined, and at times I still feel like that and I've been here for over 3 years.

    The best thing you can do is jump right in!

    Ashley & Crossbone ("mini ACD")
    Living with my parent's: Jack (Lab/Beagle), Micki & Mini (JRTS)
    RIP Kyra: 07/11/04 - 11/3/12; Shadow: 4/2/96 - 3/17/08

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    Welcome ot PT! I joined when my dog was Dog of the Day back in 2001. I don't think I ever felt awkward, though. Your post reminds me of an episode of the Andy Griffith show. There was a man from out of town who had been subscribing to the Mayberry paper. He was talking to people as if he knew them and they got suspicious of him and his intentions there. Anyway, sorry for rambling. Just jump right in and you'll feel at home in no time.

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    I did the right thing by setting you free
    But the pain is very deep.
    If only I could turn back time, forever, you I'd keep.
    I miss you


    I hear you whimper in your sleep
    I gently pet you and say, no bad dreams
    It will be alright, to my dog as dark as night.

    Fur as dark as the night.
    Join me on this flight.
    Paws of love that follow me.
    In my heart you'll forever be.
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    How I wish I could hold you near.
    Turn back time to make it so.
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    I didn't lurk too long (only about five days) before I just couldn't stop myself from telling someone how much I liked their dog. I was nervous at first, but since it was so well received, it sort of encouraged me to post more and more. Now you can't shut me up. Don't worry about where you belong. Although there seem to be clique's many of us do not really know each other outside of Pet Talk, and it is our love of animals that pull us together. Some of us may have different opinions or ideas, but by sharing those opinions and ideas we learn and become better pet owners. Welcome aboard.
    I'm off to see if you have introduced Louie.
    ETA: Found it. I hope Louie is feeling better real soon.

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    Hello, and welcome!

    I'm a bit surprised you feel that way if you've been reading for a while, as you must feel like you know us, or some of us anyway!

    Just jump in and post your thoughts, like that's a nice pic,cute photo. And post some of YOUR pet pics. Get active and you will get over the 'new girl' feeling.

    Sandie
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    Welcome to Pet Talk. It may seem awkward at first, but everyone was "the new kid" at some point! Go ahead and post in threads, that's how we get to know each other. I have never been shy, in real life OR online, but I do understand people who are.

    My name is Karen, by the way, and my pet is Miss Hoppy, the little brown bunny you see as my avatar.
    I've Been Frosted

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    Hi and welcome to PT!

    I lurked for a while before I joined but then I adopted my third cat and needed some advice so I jumped in. Everyone was so helpful that I quickly felt at home.

    Just jump in and start posting. I think you will find you fit in well in no time. What pets do you have? I have all cats now.

    From Decker with Love

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    Wow - thank you all for that encouragement. Louie (DOTD Sept 25, 2002) is my only pet. I joined and wrote about him in Dog Health because he is not doing so well at the moment. In his younger days I called him Louie the Lunatic and he still keeps me on my toes despite his limitations. I'll post more in Dog General from time to time if only to give you all a giggle.
    My name is Irene by the way.

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    Greetings and welcome to PT! When I first joined, it was due to the death of a rescue and I was distraught. I left for a while and came back and now I just have to log on daily. There are wonderful people here w/lots of encouragement, kindness, knowledge and information to share and I consider most, if not all, my friends. I'm sure you'll come to feel the same way w/time. Just stick around and jump right in.
    Blessings,
    Mary



    "Time and unforeseen occurrence befall us all." Ecclesiastes 9:11

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    I felt that way too, and sometimes still do. But as everyone else has said, just jump right in. You'll find that the people here are very welcoming. A good way to get to know people on here is to post stuff about you and your pets, a lot of times, depending on your posts, people might share similar stories and you'll get an insight into who they are.

    My name is Summer by the way.

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    I felt like that too for awhile. I started by sharing stuff about my
    RB dog Buddy. He was quite a dog.

    Just jump right in & post on anything you like. Welcome to PT.
    I've Been Boo'd

    I've been Frosted






    Today is the oldest you've ever been, and the youngest you'll ever be again.

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    I lurked for a few years but once I joined, I felt like I already knew everybody and I jumped right in with both feet.. Jump right on in, the more you post, the better we get to know you!

    Special Needs Pets just leave bigger imprints on your heart!

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    Hi Irene You post away sweetie! You won't find a more welcoming and caring bunch of people in the world
    Give £1 for a poundie www.songfordogs.co.uk

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    Hi Irene. Many of us feel a bit like strangers at times, even those of us who have been around from the very beginning. It is much harder now because Pet Talk is so big and it is hard to keep track of who is who at times. Just remember that this is a forum and by its very nature when a thread is posted, it is open to anyone and everyone who wants to comment. So if you have something to say, type away. You have to be a little thick skinned too and not take it personally if no one seems to *notice you*. Many of us have only a limited time to devote to the board so we might only be able to read a few threads and probably reply to less than that.

    Anyway, I'm going to go check out Louie's Dog of the Day page right now.
    *Until one has loved an animal, a part of ones soul remains unawakened.* Anatole France

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    Just looked up Louis. He is such a sweet looking pupper

    Here is is DOTD. http://dogoftheday.com/archive/2002/September/25.html
    I've Been Boo'd

    I've been Frosted






    Today is the oldest you've ever been, and the youngest you'll ever be again.

    Eleanor Roosevelt

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