http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=138151

Jeez...as a counsellor told me about a roommate I had decades ago, "Candace, you aren't gonna win with this one."

New job is ok - learning curve - if I don't pass probation in 3 months, I can look elsewhere, there are jobs around.

I have been trying to do some tasks with Realtor Gal. Yes, I messed up the database pretty bad as I didn't get a good book on it til January - and didn't get to really READ it till yesterday; I was treating it more like a hard-copy "help" menu.

My friend Irene was over to see about taking over the day-to-day stuff. During the day, RG saw the results of a mistake I had made on the DB - which I was in the middle of correcting - and she flipped. With tears in her eyes, she asked WHY this was happening, and "why are you doing this to me?", and DEMANDING that I look her in the eye, etc. I actually yelled back at her.

ANYWAY...got the job corrected as far as possible later on, and made backups on 3 cds, and took one home.

I found out I had not done the backup correctly, it was read-only.

Anyway...she emailed yesterday that she is having continuous meltdowns about the database.

I sent several emails, describing how to send a correct backup.

No response - so I called her. And she went on AGAIN about the SAME stuff - I FINALLY cut in enough to say, "Read your emails and get back to me. I need HELP, not nattering!"

I am calling her nearby computer help neighbour - she just emailed me again. Said she couldn't understand the database mess and was tired of the abuse.

I replied, told her I understood about the abuse , and that I wanted peace too.

I put in capital letters about needing the right database now, that I had read the book, and to PLEASE send it. I would talk her through it, or her computer neighbour.

I want the DB to work, cause I want to do my work right. But I am SO done with her!

Thanks for listening. PLEASE PRAY for this woman - she truly is so sick and unhappy!!!!