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    RIP Maximus - We miss you so much.

    First of all, I should start this thread by apologizing for not posting here for so long. It has been a long and trying couple of months. I also apologize for posting some depressing threads as my first order of business, but my family has suffered some heavy losses, and I thought I should update people.

    Maximus, our "oldest" cat (I say oldest as he was 11 months old) passed away this past Thursday, December 27th. My fiance and I had talked about getting a cat for a long, long time, and for his birthday in April, I brought home Max. He was purr-fect, and immediately fit in so well with our family. He cuddled with our dogs, gave us head bumpies 24/7, and drooled when he was happy.

    Shortly after getting Max, I brought him to the vet and had a combo test done on him - I had adopted him from a person on craigslist whose cat had an unwanted litter. I should have gone through a reputable rescue that combo tests to BEGIN with, but at the same time, I wouldn't trade our time with him for anything. So, yeah - he tested positive for FIV. Our vet told us that he could live a long and happy life, as long as we treated infections/illnesses with aggressive antibiotics, kept him indoors, fed him high quality food, etc etc.

    Starting last Wednesday, the 26th, Max got somewhat lethargic, and wasn't as cuddly as usual. As first I wasn't very concerned, but Thursday morning it was worse. I checked his gums and they were super pale - I made him a vet appointment for the same day, and worried all day at work. When we got to the vet he had declined even further, and they admitted him immediately into their emergency clinic. The first step was to do a CBC and see what his counts were....I suspected that he was anemic because of his coloring, and I was right. Our vet told us that their red count is supposed to register at around "30". Below "20" they recommend a blood transfusion. Our poor Max's was a 5. I felt like someone kicked me in the stomach repeatedly. I felt like the worst Meowmie in the world - how would he have gotten to that point and I hadn't know?? Our vet told us that she suspected the FIV had started attacking his own blood cells, and he had been compensating for his lack of red cells for some time. I asked her what she would do if it was her cat, and without hesitation, she said that she would have him euthanized. She said he was suffering, and out of it, and that we "could spend thousands of dollars on transfusions if we wanted to, but in reality, the FIV would eventually attack that blood as well". She said that ultimately, he was fighting a battle that he couldn't win. I didn't want him to spend his last days in a cage, hooked up to tubes while we fought to keep him around for a few more days. My fiance and I drove to the hospital, sat in the room across the hall from where I said goodbye to Hero 10 days prior, and said goodbye to Maximus. I cried so hard I could barely see. Max was so weak, and he still managed to purr - I'll never forget that.

    Here are some pictures of our Maximus - if you get a chance, please say a little prayer that he made it to the bridge safely.











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    Thank you Kay for the awesome siggy!!!

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    I am so, so sorry.

    Thank you and bless you for taking this little guy 'from an unwanted litter' and giving him so much love and a great home, and a caring goodbye when it was his time.

    It's always too soon when we love our furbabies as you do.

    Bounce and play at the Bridge, Max - and I am sure there will be some doggies to cuddle with!
    "Do or do not. There is no try." -- Yoda

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    Oh no, Liz!! I remember so well when you brought Max home, and introduced him to all of us here on PT. And then the updates, as he welcomed all the passers-through, the little ambassador for your rescue work.

    Maximus, your life was much too short, but God must have needed a great ambassador at the Bridge for some very important work there. Please let mom and dad have a purr in the ear now and then to remind them you are well.

    LES, I can't write anymore, you did so much with him here on PT.
    {{HUGS}}
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    Dear Maximum... please know that there are a few of my own kitties up there at the bridge who had FIV, and they were the sweetest most loving boys on the planet. I'm so sorry that you were not able to fight it off and live a long and healthy life. Do me a favor and check in on my Mac... he's a tiger boy just like you, and is about 14 years old. He has been there for just a year, and was taken from us too soon after being adopted into a forever home (he was in a shelter for 10 years!).

    Look in on your meowmie and family and see that they are doing ok. Let them know that you feel so much better up there and no longer are in pain or suffering. We hate to think that that would happen to our babies.

    Sleep softly, sweet Maximus. You'll meet your family again, one fine day.
    Nose kissies from Jennie and her crew

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    I'm so sorry to hear about Maximus's passing. You gave him a wonderful caring and loving home and I know you'll meet up with him again some day. Until then he'll be up at the Bridge playing with all of the other cats and dogs. RIP sweet Maximus.

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    Major LES here. I too remember when you first got Maximus.
    I am so sorry.
    RIP Max.
    Our goal in life should be - to be as good a person as our dog thinks we are.

    Thank you for the siggy, Michelle!


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