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    Please meet Ben, my new boy

    You guys, I'm not going to go into the details, right now, but I will explain the whole story, later. I explained part of it in Dog Rescue, two days ago, so you can check there. But after we finally decided to look to adopt a rescue Golden Retriever girl, we ended up with a precious boy. He is here and this will be a tough night, with all the introductions. Helen and I "met" with Ben and his family on Monday and we knew it was the right thing to do. Scott and Helen had blessed adding to our family a few weeks ago, a little earlier than I had planned, but they realized that I needed that new addition and agreed to adopt a female through rescue. I just need another dog like Lilly, who is easy going and can provide me some of the companionship that I can't get with Honey or Mack for various reasons. I'm sorry that I haven't explained this situation before now, but I wanted to be sure it would work before I said anything.

    What I can tell you is that Honey is fine. Butter (cat) is fine, and my hope is that Baby Mack (English Bulldog) will be fine, too, in time. Ben is here, so Mack had better get over any anxiety he has about a new addition. He was a bit "mouthy" about meeting Ben through the gate tonight, but he did ok. We have not been in the same room yet, but we can hold out on that for a few days, if necessary.

    Ben is a 5+ (we think) Golden Retriever that we fostered in 2006, for a week, before he was adopted. No problems, then, and I hope that we won't have ongoing problems with him here, permanently. His family has a real life changing event going on and they asked if we would take him. I was really honored that they felt that comfortable with me. They formally turned him over to the rescue group tonight, but I was the one to pick him up, and if everything ends up ok, he will stay here as our forever boy.

    I don't have pictures, right now, as I had to introduce him back into our home, wiithout assistance from Helen or Scott, who are both out of town tonight, 8 months after he was last here. I did a smart thing, though, and took Ben to McDonald's and got 3 plain hamburgers before I came home. The hamburgers helped a lot! LOL!!! Honey could care less about the new dog, just wanted her hamburger. Butter stood beside Ben and asked for his share, too. And Mack did his "sit" and "shake" for his burger, too. They had a few grumbles through the gate, but they were ok. I'm glad Ben let Mack know that he was not going to put up with his foolishness. I do need to take Ben out for his final "out" for the night, then bring in Honey and Mack, who are outside, now (and barking), but I think we are going to be ok.

    He looks different now, but he has Lilly's coloring and he has her personality, too. God Bless Lilly........I think she has dumped this boy in my lap, right now.

    Logan, Honey, Baby Mack, Butter and Ben
    Last edited by Logan; 07-12-2007 at 08:48 AM.

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    How wonderful for you and your family and of course, for Ben Please let me be the first to congratulate you and to welcome Ben to Pet Talk officially

    Will wait patiently for pictures of his magnificent self! Enjoy your evening.

    Betty
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    Woohoo! i'm sl glad you all decided to add Ben to your family.

    For those who didn't see Ben in the rescue thread ~ here he is!


    Welcome to Pet Talk sweet boy. I'm sure with time Mack will learn to love you.

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    Congrats, Logan!

    I can't wait to see more pictures of the gorgeous boy .
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    CONGRATS! Hope intros go well for you and the family!


    Thank you so much Michelle!

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    Who wouldn't love that sweet boy!

    Blessing on your head, Benny-boy...and if Butterball stood next to you...you must be a bit of all right!!!

    (Get with the program Mr. Mack!!!)

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    What a doll Ben is Just look at that gorgeous smile! Little Mack just needs a little time to get over himself he'll be fine.

    I agree with Sara ... if Butter says you're in Ben .... you are so in
    Yours in Whiskers

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    I commented in the rescue thread, and will comment here ....

    Whoooooo Hooooooooo

    Congratulations!!! He looks like a real darling.
    M!
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    I'm still awake, but Mack has gone to sleep, thank goodness! I spent a lot of tonight with him so he wouldn't feel neglected. Ben is asleep at my feet, and Honey is behind me. I think Ben and Honey are going to be just fine, and to tell you the truth, perhaps was a good experience for Mack. He missed out on the companionship because he wouldn't cooperate the way he should have. But he didn't knock down the gate and he walked away, once we ignored him. With Helen's help, I will introduce them, face to face, tomorrow. Just didn't feel like it tonight.

    I'm pooped as I know all of my furry ones are. Butter and Honey win the award for being the best host/hostess to a new friend. I am so proud of both of them!!!!!

    Goodnight from all of us. I'm going to leave the radio on for Mack........Faith Hill is singing to him right now!

    Logan

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    Congratulations Logan!

    I hope you and sweet Ben have many years of happiness together.

    I look forward to pictures.

    From Decker with Love

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    Pictures from today

    First of all, Helen and I did the face to face, no gate, introduction with Mack and Ben this afternoon. They did GREAT!!!! In fact, we had a hard time getting them to even acknowledge each other! LOL!! We'll just take it a little at a time so no one gets overwhelmed, but I think everything is going to be just fine. Hallelujah!

    I took a picture of Mack for you, but I was so embarassed about how dirty his face and ears are that I am not going to post it! Honey is snoozing on the kitchen floor. It is very, very hot here and we are all feeling it today.

    Here is Ben a few minutes ago. He was looking up at Helen who was on the stairs.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Logan
    I took a picture of Mack for you, but I was so embarassed about how dirty his face and ears are that I am not going to post it!
    Like we haven't had a grubby dog now and then? And next to that beauty, Ben, I don't think that either of my dogs would fare well in comparison.

    Thanks for the update, Logan. I couldn't be more pleased to know that all systems are go for this to work out well. A big high five to all fur kids. Now when does Helen get a kitty?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachel
    Like we haven't had a grubby dog now and then? And next to that beauty, Ben, I don't think that either of my dogs would fare well in comparison.

    Thanks for the update, Logan. I couldn't be more pleased to know that all systems are go for this to work out well. A big high five to all fur kids. Now when does Helen get a kitty?
    RACHEL!!!!!! We are NOT going to talk about kittens if I have anything to do with it!!!!!! I would be willing to consider an adult cat, but I have absolutely no interest in a kitten or a puppy. Of course, if it were just Helen and me, I'd let her have one.

    Helen actually asked me, this afternoon, if I thought Ben would like to sleep in the bed with her. You know, that might be the answer to this whole bed thing. She has always wanted Honey to sleep with her, but Honey will not go up the stairs. Isn't that funny? Silly girl. Maybe it will be a win win situation for Ben, Helen and us. Butter sleeps with Scott and me, most nights, and doesn't cuddle the way Helen and Mimi always did. Even when he sleeps with her, he is close, but not touching her.

    One of the happiest things that happened today is that Helen already adores Ben. She will be a big help with him as she is with the others. Now we just need to see how Scott reacts to Ben. I think he is going to love him. Ben is so much like Lilly and Zipper, already, and Scott had a very soft spot in his heart for both of them.

    Logan

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    I didn't get a chance to post onthe rescue thread, even though I read read there a few days ago, Ben was coming home!

    Congrats on the new addition!! I'm glad he is fitting in well.

    Sounds like he might help fill in a little of the whole in your heart. It does mean something tohave a dog you can do therapy work, and other special things with, but not all dogs can fit that role. Sounds like Ben will be great!

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    Aww Logan, what a sweet boy Ben is! He has the sweetest face, and I love his color. He will surely be a great friend to you all.



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