I dated a guy named Shawn from May 2006-June 2006. I dumped him as his drugs, drinking, & being fired left right & centre was not the kind of person I want to spend the rest of my life with.

At first I was trying to be nice to him & saying no & where he went wrong & how & where to get help. This went on for a couple months. Then he dissapeared, YAY!! Then he returned, poo... Every few weeks he'd message me. I started getting nasty at him, as I had had enough & wanted him to just go away & stop making new msn accounts as I keep blocking his.

Then he dissapeared for 3-4 months & I totally forgot about it & didn't have to worry about what messages I'd find on my MSN...

Well hes returned

This is along the lines of what he said... "I just returned from rehab & I have a job"...

He just doesn't get it... He cannot take back what he did & I don't want him back.

I'm really considering talking to the police, but I don't want to at the same time, cause hes not messaging me everyday & hes not being an asshat either. hes just bagging me to take him back & that hes changed (he says that in every post & said that when I was with him... I'm sure they are lies)... I don't want the police hounding him or his family, unless he becomes agressive or is really harassing me...

He has no idea where I live & my phone # has been dissconnected (not cause of him, I no longer needed it). But he knows where I work (unless hes fried his brain & forgot)...


GAH!!! What on earth do I do?