One of the things that i think will help cainan(for all of you who know cainans little situation) is ALOT of attention! is giving too much attention bad? i guess my concern is i dont want to give him alot of attention and then have him end up having some sort of anxiety for being alone you know. Also i dont want the others to feel left out, they are pretty good about not not getting upset when i give one attention and not the other...most of the time they just all bombard me at once so they can get a little mom love at the same time. Having two hands is a problem during times like this, since i cant touch them all at the same time! But i just dont want him to end up with seperation anxiety, do you think giving him too much attention could end up being bad in the end? thanks in advance!