Sigh -- without going into a long story, just take it that I do not like the other dog trainer at work, and take it from me that I have valid reasons on NOT liking her. I nearly flipped on her tonight and even my manager agreed my anger was justified..... and becuse of what she did tonight, we all have to meet face to face tomorrow night and "hash out our feelings". I do NOT want to meet tomorrow but basically have no choice.
How do I talk to someone who I don't trust? How do I tell her that I don't believe anything she has to say? How do I not jump across the table and strangle her?
I want to know what to say, HOW to say it, etc. I KNOW me, I know I'll go there and kiss her butt rather than telling her that I feel she's a manipulative liar. I'm sure there's a far more tactful way of calling her a backstabbing soul crushing b*tch, anyone know how to say it without sounding resentful and crazy? I have just been through too much lately and this woman makes me so mad that I was seconds away from quitting last week (oh yeah, that would have been smart on my part )
I have been reduced to tears by her, and sent into a blinding rage by her. All from a woman who I've only sat down and really talked to a few times. Its all stuff she does behind the scenes when I'm not in the store. To my face she is all sweetness and pie. I swear she'd have forest creatures prancing around her ankles and pretty birds floating around her head if she could do so.... but watch out because as soon as you turn your back she'd be kicking those forest creatues and swatting at the birds.
Help! I want to prepare mentally for this and figure out how to word everything so it sounds logical instead of emotional. I KNOW I'm an emotional wreck right now and thats the last thing I want to admit to her. I don't want her thinking all my points were made based on my emotional state rather than the real issues.
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