Oh God, Please No!

[aly]

Tonya -

I can't find the words to express my deepest sympathies to you, and to all of the families involved. I am so sorry

I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if I can do anything

[zippy-kat]

The funeral is Wednesday morning.
I have no motiviation to begin my termpaper that's due tomorrow.

Your prayers and support mean the world to me.. I can't fathom what the parents are going through as, I myself just want to crawl in that casket and go with them.

It wasn't suppose to happen like this. I feel so guilty...feel like it should've been me, not them. They were trying to have a baby. She wanted a little girl--all pink and frilly--and to one-up her sister in parenting.

What do I have to contribute to this world that they didn't? I just don't understand at all. I just don't understand. This just doesn't happen to best friends... it can't happen.

I'm so sorry for venting... I just... I'm sorry.



Laurie did you get my PM?

[lbaker]

yep, and back atcha wrap your left hand across your right shoulder. Now wrap your right hand across your left shoulder. Now SQUEEEZE, that's from me.

[momoffuzzyfaces]

Ah, Tonya, I know how you are feeling. I felt the same way when my mother died 10 days after my 13th birthday. There I was just a kid: no good to anyone. My dad and brother needed my mother. I would have traded places with her in a heartbeat and never questioned it. Now, almost 40 years later, I still don't know why. I have little family and never did anything great with my life. I think we aren't supposed to know the reasons behind everything. Maybe I was here to help my dad through the last years of his life or maybe just to be a friend. I have learned that what can't be changed has to be endured; sometimes one second at a time. Believe it or not, the sun will shine again and you will smile and even laugh again. When that day comes, you are not bad for enjoying life. Your friend would want that for you. Believe that she loved you and would want the very best for you. You have two new angels in heaven watching over you now.

(plus I would be a very sad, lonely old lady without you).

[carole]

Zippy I can only imagine how devasted you are and how bad you are feeling right now, but please dear don't ever think it should have been you, we will never understand why some people leave so early from our world, and it hurts like hell, but you have a wonderful contribution to make, and for whatever reason, you have been chosen to continue your life here on earth.

This is so painful and heart-breaking for you, there are no words that can express enough what I feel for you dear.

All I want to say is I hope you find some comfort and strength for the days ahead, we are all here by your side, HUGS AND LOTS OF LOVE, you take care now ok.

[wolf_Q]

Tonya, I don't know how I missed this thread. What a horrible tragedy...I can't even imagine what you're feeling right now. I don't know what I would do if I lost such a close friend.

I'll be keeping you and their family in my thoughts. {{hugs}}

[Cinder & Smoke]

{HUGG} ALERT!!

LOT more {{{HUGGz}}} NEEDED at the Zippy-Kat Ranch ~

Please Send Some More - QUICK-LIKE!

{{{HUGG}}}

for YOU, Zippy !

[Miss Meow]

More hugs on the way to you, Tonya {{{hug}}}

We are all still thinking of you while you come to terms with this tragedy, and are here for you.

Come back when you're ready, and please let me know if I can do anything. Give K'Cee and Piper a big pet for me and tell them how much you love them

[Aspen and Misty]

O Tonya ::hugs:: I have tears streaing down my face reading your words. ::hugs::


I can't even begin to imagine the pain you must be going through!


Ash

[lizbud]

Zippy,

It hurts my heart to know that you are in such pain over the
tragic loss of your dear friends. Never told you this before,
but I kinda think of you like a " cyber daughter". I really wish
I had the magic words to say to comfort you. I don't.

Please know that you are in my prayers always. I wish we all
could do more to offer comfort in this very sad time for you.
(((Hugs))) from Liz, Smokey & Kitties.

[Tubby & Peanut's Mom]

Oh Tonya, I'm so sorry! I hadn't seen this before and I can't believe you're having to deal with something like this.

Many, many {{{hugs}}} going out to you at this horrible time. Thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

How sad.

[gini]

To our Pet Talk friend with the beautiful spirit - all of us love you so much.

I know that I adopted you a long time ago and have told you that.

Life's path is bumpy right now and its meaning is unclear but I know that if you can be very quiet you might hear the rustle of wings.

I have asked my guardian angel to go to you and gently wrap you in wings filled with love - and keep you safe.

I don't think that you see it, but the rest of us do, you have a mission in life that is just starting to unfold. You will make so many people happy and bring a joy to animals that they have never known.

All of us are here for you and I hope you will allow each of us to take just a small portion of your pain and make your life a bit easier and lighter.

Love, Gini

[Former User]

for you Tonya. I am so sorry for this terrible loss, it's so sad... I really don't know what to say.... but please know we all love and care about you a great deal, and wish you lots of strength to get thru this.

Take care Tonya!

With love and hugs,

Niina & Patrick

[pitc9]

God Bless you honey!

There is nothing I can say that has not already been said.
Words can not heal the hurt... only time can!

Please make sure to take good care of yourself!

Hugs-n-Prayers comming your way!

[Killearn Kitties]

I'm so very sorry for the shock and the terrible hurt you are feeling now at the loss of your friend. It's a dreadful situation and words can't make it better; only time can, time and the love and support of your friends.